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Diary of an Online Dater

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Day 1 11:42PM Having procrastinated until the eleventh hour on this week’s sermon, the only thing that makes sense at this point, less than nine hours before said sermon will be preached, is to join an online dating site. Dating site X is selected, and I begin to fill out the form that will, with [...]

Divorced Woman Moving. Help Needed.

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Last month, my family and I moved again.  We’ve moved a number of times, so you’d think that we would be old pros, able to easily navigate the ups and downs of moving.  This time, however, things were very different.  This time, I was moving not as part of a team of two married people, [...]

A Chance for New Life

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My 35th birthday was a difficult one.  I had been serving as a solo pastor in a small Presbyterian Church in Washington State for 5 years, and it just didn’t seem to grow, no matter how hard I worked.  In my aging congregation, I had lots of opportunity to care for widows, but I also [...]

Cooking For One

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“I was going to take this class called Cooking For One but the instructor killed himself.” Liz Lemon, 30 Rock I really like to cook. I will spend days looking through cookbooks to find the perfect recipes, shopping for ingredients, and hours preparing a meal for a dinner party that will entertain those I love [...]

Keeping the Sabbath

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Editor’s Note: This article is one in an occasional series called “A Lenten Pause,” running on Fidelia’s Sisters until Easter. As many young clergy women plan to come to our summer conference, Sabbath in the City, in Chicago we’ll be taking a look at the sometimes terrifying topic of sabbath and the role it plays in our [...]

Life is a Highway

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Last week I reached a milestone.  I paid off my car.  It took me 5 years to do it, and I found, as I saw the last bill with $0.00 after the words “Balance Due,” that it was a bittersweet moment.   I’m not one of those people who has a relationship with my car.  [...]

Searching, Searching, Searching…

A post appeared recently in the closed Facebook network for The Young Clergy Women Project that caught my eye. In this post, a fellow YCW asked about the search process with her husband. He’s a pastor. She’s a pastor. They have a baby. And it’s time for them to search. So, she was looking for [...]

Shame

by Name Withheld An online engagement announcement. In one second I was thrown from a bored moment at the computer, idly Facebooking between tasks, to crushing doubt, self-criticism, and questioning every decision I had made in the last four years. The last thirty five years, really. The last guy I had been in a serious [...]

Open Relationship

by Emily Zeig I never thought I would end up in an open relationship. I never dreamed that this is the way my life would unfold. But then, as a young clergywoman, I followed God’s call to a small town in northwest Pennsylvania. The town is a typical small town. There’s a downtown committed to [...]

Blessed Be the Tentmakers

By Diane Faires Editor's Note:This article is one in an occasional series called "All About the Benjamins," running this fall on Fidelia's Sisters. As many congregations and organizations are running stewardship campaigns and lining up budgets for 2012, we'll be taking a look at the sometimes-taboo topic of money, and the roles it plays in [...]