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From There to Here: YCWI Conference Reflections from St. Louis to D.C.

Six years ago at my first YCWI conference, I was newly serving as the lead pastor of a large church, newly separated and heading for divorce, newly single and just starting to date, and just starting to come out as queer.  It had been a chaotic year to say the least, and YCWI was getting […]

Stealth Queers

Stealth queers are all around you. Your gaydar won’t detect us. Your discriminatory church policies forget about us.  Are we closeted? Not necessarily.  We just go about our business — and you make assumptions.  You see me as a cisgender woman married to a cisgender man, and you assume that I’m heterosexual. I’m not. I’m […]