Divorced Woman Moving. Help Needed.

Last month, my family and I moved again.  We’ve moved a number of times, so you’d think that we would be old pros, able to easily navigate the ups and […]

A Chance for New Life

My 35th birthday was a difficult one.  I had been serving as a solo pastor in a small Presbyterian Church in Washington State for 5 years, and it just didn’t […]

Cooking For One

“I was going to take this class called Cooking For One but the instructor killed himself.” Liz Lemon, 30 Rock I really like to cook. I will spend days looking […]

Keeping the Sabbath

Editor’s Note: This article is one in an occasional series called “A Lenten Pause,” running on Fidelia’s Sisters until Easter. As many young clergy women plan to come to our summer […]

Life is a Highway

Last week I reached a milestone.  I paid off my car.  It took me 5 years to do it, and I found, as I saw the last bill with $0.00 […]

Searching, Searching, Searching…

A post appeared recently in the closed Facebook network for The Young Clergy Women Project that caught my eye. In this post, a fellow YCW asked about the search process […]

Shame

by Name Withheld An online engagement announcement. In one second I was thrown from a bored moment at the computer, idly Facebooking between tasks, to crushing doubt, self-criticism, and questioning […]

Open Relationship

I never thought I would end up in an open relationship. I never dreamed that this is the way my life would unfold. But then, as a young clergywoman, I […]

Blessed Be the Tentmakers

I haven’t had a boyfriend in a very, very long time. Or even a good date.This long stretch of singlehood has made me identify more closely with the women in […]

Sex(ism) and The Single Rev

Feminism seems to be a dirty word these days. At a recent all-women roller derby practice one of the organizers cheerfully described the league as being run by women, for […]